I am finding a lot of people in "bad mood". They will behave rudely or without any manners and will later say that they were in bad moods. I wonder if all human beings have this problem. I never had it. I had been gloomy, angry or in some kind of bad moods. But it never made me behave in a "bad" way. I can't look at anyone whom I know well without a smile whatever mood I may be in at the moment. Even if I am angry with that person, I will behave like a human.
So, What kind of phenomenon is this "in bad moods"?
Is this an escape from ones self? You act without any control, and then blame your bad mood - this will make you to take no responsibility for your action. So, you are comfortable. And, other "good" people "will understand" you. So no more conflicts.
By this, I infer that this is the habit of the weak-willed people. They have no control over themselves, no determination and are contemptible. Or at least, they feel that they are contemptible. I must feel pity towards them, in fact.
However, it is very difficult to live among these weak people. Only my strength of will helps me to do so....
Yeah, I guess I would also agree that this happens due to a weak will. But I guess all of us are in the process of learning. Some learn fast and some learn slow.
ReplyDeleteEven I have this problem of being in a bad mood sometimes. Though I try my best, I don't really have the strong will to smile at many such times. So, during such moments, what I do is to stay away from people so that I don't hurt them unnecessarily. This also gives me time to come back to the state of smiling... :-)
But yes, over the years, such moments of a weakness of the will have reduced for me a lot. I guess I am learning and making progress.. :-)